Fat, Black & Single #2

Last year back in June I did a very honest post, about how I felt my weight and being black relates to my relationship status. I went back to read my Fat, Black & Single post the other day and got pretty emotional. I don't really remember writing all the things I was reading. I felt as … Continue reading Fat, Black & Single #2

I’m a Control Freak

So I've just started reading a book by Iyanla Vanzant called The Value In The Valley: A Black Woman's Guide Through Life's Dilemmas. I heard Ukafrolista speak about this book in this video and decided to buy it. I bought it back in October last year, but I've only just opened it up now. Are You Really A Control Freak? I would … Continue reading I’m a Control Freak

Is This Anxiety?

I had started and deleted this post so many times now, but I think it's time to just say what I want to say. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and I don't really believe in coincidences. 99% of the time I don't actually know why certain things happen, but I feel … Continue reading Is This Anxiety?

My Dating App Experience

I'm still single so this is definitely not an advice post. This is just me sharing my experience so far. I have been on and off Tinder for a while now. I am constantly deleting and re-downloading this strange app, in hopes that someone interesting will catch my eye. I wasn't having any success with … Continue reading My Dating App Experience