Fat, Black & Single #2

Last year back in June I did a very honest post, about how I felt my weight and being black relates to my relationship status. I went back to read my Fat, Black & Single post the other day and got pretty emotional. I don't really remember writing all the things I was reading. I felt as … Continue reading Fat, Black & Single #2

I’m a Control Freak

So I've just started reading a book by Iyanla Vanzant called The Value In The Valley: A Black Woman's Guide Through Life's Dilemmas. I heard Ukafrolista speak about this book in this video and decided to buy it. I bought it back in October last year, but I've only just opened it up now. Are You Really A Control Freak? I would … Continue reading I’m a Control Freak

Representation Matters

Representation is so important, I can't stress that enough. I'm so here for all the black men and women doing big things for the black community. Opening doors for more black people to express themselves. Showing the world that there's so much more to black people and black culture, than the negative images that the … Continue reading Representation Matters

Is This Anxiety?

I had started and deleted this post so many times now, but I think it's time to just say what I want to say. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and I don't really believe in coincidences. 99% of the time I don't actually know why certain things happen, but I feel … Continue reading Is This Anxiety?